general talk - wedding

sumber dr : blog 4weddingku

This is a general talk,about wedding's dream.

Yes, it is a fantasy of every bride to have her own wedding dream
From that white satin, to 3 tiers cake, to that pelamin with full of fresh flowers
Not to mention, an invitation with embossed letter on hard cover scented paper
And a centerpiece at each table that will simply take their breath away...

TETAPI, HOWEVER,BUT

Please live in your own reality world
In this downturn economic, janganlah sampai nak berhutang keliling pinggang...
Please do not argue with everyone as they have their opinion too on ur weds...
and please.. Do take consideration of - WHAT IF ?

Why do i said all this?
Simply to tell bride-to-be,
Sometimes, we are not as lucky as they are to be able making our dream wedding come true!

TETAPI, HOWEVER, BUT

We can always make at least some of those dreams, do come true,
By applying this principles; (and proper plan)

1. It is only a wedding, NOT LIFE! So, please do consider real life after marriaged [yup sgt btol life after marriage is d most important coz wedding juz 1 celebration day n we become raja sehari hahaha]
2. Please do not compare yourself with celebrity ker, artist ker, anak datuk ker even with anybody. Sometimes their wedding too not as simple and beautiful as per published. [of coz la xnk compare pn diorg yg wat mewah2 tu pn sbb disponsor kang x accept sponsor kene ngate gak amik pn kene ngate gak hihihi but to those yg nk sponsor 4 mywed amat dialu2kn n jasamu akn dikenang :)]
3. "Its my Wedding, Its my Money" will not make u happy in the end. Why?, haven't u heard blessing = berkat ? You will be happy when you see everyone happy too! And, believe me, they will be happier for you... [kab ba ro....(pinjam ayt mak si Adif dlm cite Dunia Baru) yg penting sume org hepy]
4. Expensive is NOT BEAUTIFUL. Please bare in mind that,NOT EVERYTHING EXPENSIVE actually BEAUTIFUL. There are much choices out there you can find beautiful stuff at way lower price. So what if they are judging u?, that is all you can afford! with your very own money! [yaaa peduli pe org nk kate yg pntg kite sdr akn kemampuan kewangan kite]
5. Most important, is YOU and HIM with LOVE [of coz la we must love each other]


from my opinion : masyarakat melayu still ade consideration utk dgr itu ini komen/pendapat dr org yg lebih berpengalaman.but sometimes "nanti org kate pe lak" mmmm ayt ni la yg selalunye membuatkn kite akn tersepit antr nk ikut cr sndr or nk ikut ckp2 org... so renung2kn selamat beramal :)