sumenye ok..... :)

pepagi td EnTunang dh tanye camne plan weken ni ... me jwb xtau .. so die suggest setelkn dlu urusan nikah tu n then nxt week br baju lak... so die akn anta borang kejap je lg(mlm ni)... yaa akhirnye sy berjaya cool down n memuaskan ati semua pihak... yg penting mereka bahagia... ptg td saje cari motivasi diri n terjumpe artikel (just copy sebahagian jer) - source from here

1. Respect your parents. Do this not just by giving them respect, but by listening to what they say and trying your best to make them happy. Realize that you may be able to choose your friends, but you're born to your family. If there's nothing you can do to please your parents, you'll be happier if you just accept it for now and focus on pleasing yourself. Making others happy is secondary to being happy yourself. And things do change over time.

2. Realize that life is not always going to go smoothly. Try to face the "ups and downs" in your family life with positive thinking and a cool mind. But your family doesn't have the right to make you miserable just because they're family. Try to get along, but if it doesn't work, let it go.

3. Try to compromise whenever and wherever it's possible. When you see that the people who you love most are happy, you will have a feeling of great happiness. You will have to compromise a lot in life; family is the first environment to begin learning this important skill, amongst people who know you best and can guide you with their reactions, thoughts and suggestions. Even the things they don't tell you become a learning experience.

4. Give occasional gifts to your family members. Surprise gifts can be great because most people love them. The best gifts tend to be the ones you make yourself, or put a lot of thought into. Also appreciated are gifts of your time; doing tasks around the house that haven't been done for a while such as painting touch-ups, restoring missing door handles etc. and clearing away clutter.

5. Be honest with your parents, but bear in mind that they don't always need to know everything. If you get along well, you can open up, but if you don't, avoiding tender subjects can keep the peace. Sometimes saying nothing can be better for a family relationship than saying everything. Family is forever. Why fight about the little things?

6. Feel free to communicate with each and every person in your family. Listen to them when they want to say something; try to be with them when they need you. Bear in mind that the needs of your family don't outweigh your own. Give them your time and love, not your life.

i luv my family very much :) :) i wanna be a good daughter for mymom+lilsis for mybro/mysis+sis for mylilbro+aunty for nephew/niece+ soon to be ..... :):)

arrrgh not in da good mood

since smlm asik duk argue with mybro psl nk blk nanti uruskn borg nikah.... 1st plan nk wat tgh bln dpn which consider dh lmbt sgt so mymom suggest wat weken nih... so me+EnTunang dh plan baik punye utk weken nih huh tetibe mybro lak stuju blk sorg mggu ni... sy dh kuarkan hujah2 utk mengatekn yg mayb xleh setel by this weken... yela kang main terjah je nanti tok kadi xde lak.. saksi pn lum bgtau lg... appointment ngan butik pn lum wat lg... katekn la tok kadi+butik ok but only available at d same time how??? sbnrnye hasrat tersirat sy adelah nk blk tpg tiap2 mggu :P :P ya by nxt week may b akn blk tiap weken punye... so td kate putusnye 'lantakla, kalo nk wat gak kol dlu tanye camne' .... lgpn cara komunikasi x berkesan sgt bcoz bile sy dh mls nk melyn sy trs je msk blk so mybro x abis ckp pe lg... sungguh kureng kn huhuhu but itulah saye yg 'keras+degil' dll

xtau tajuk (II)

td g HR tanye bape total cuti for me lps cnfrm nih n she replied 11.5 days yuhuuu byk gilos akan ku abiskn gak nanti ... ini bermakne sy akn cuti ry haji smpi la awal Muharram.. pastu malu2 kucin bertanye cuti kawin bape lak so die kate 2ari jer.. so ok la cun2 myplan .... yaa dgn ini sy ingin mengumumkan secara x rasmi cuti sy akn start ptg jmaat 27/11 - 20/12 hehe lame x.. seb baik ade 2 kali cuti jumaat (11/12 Sultan Selangor+18/12 Awal Muharram)

mykeje lak still pending utk payment commerce tu ntah bile nk siap utk date 2-8/10, 19/10, 26/10, 27/10 huhu byk tu camno nih den nk abiskn kalo makin tangguh makin byk keje laks adusss rajin sungguh rakyat Malaysia ni byr smn eh hihihi

Macam-macam perasaan (IV)

lately ni asik terdengar je kisah rumahtangga yg kureng elok huhu amat terase ketakutannye.. mcm pg td AM Crew wat topik psl kes poligami n kalo x salah last 2 weeks ade topik laki ad skandal time JawaRangers... aiyaa sy telah imagine outta myspace n try membygkn sy yg berada ditempat mereka tp nmpknye sy xmampu nk hadapi tu sume... to EnTunang sayangilah diriku ini seadanya :P

smlm mymom kol tanye bile nk blk setelkn form nikah tu ... then mybro tanye bile nk blk tp me reply dgn nada suara yg agak tggi (ofcoz la xsengaja at dat time very da stress lor) so trs msk bilik mendiamkn diri ... tp ape yg ptt dibuat I have no problem at all but he need to consider his family first huh konflik btol *sigh*

td jenjalan kat blog org tgk memasing sume dh wat entry psl rumah.. me??? huhu sy xde umah haha... no la EnTunang kate nanti lps kawin akn stay kat umah sewa die skang nun jauh di Sepang sane.. alamat bankrupla den berulang g blk keje huhu xpe slow2 cr peluang lain k :) barang2 dlm umah rasenye dh complete (EnTunang yg citer) je tp sy xprnh msk pn lg umah tu saba2 lum time lg :P konklusinye sy akn membawa langkah kaki ini dgn personal belonging je bile masenye nanti hahaha untung x camni :P :P

p/s : xtau la nk rase pape skang ni makin dkt dh time tu sbb tu macam2 perasaan :P

checklist (8)

yaaa kawan2 sile lihat countdown dipenjuru ats knn itu only 39days left for today... owh noo sume masih samar2 lg hehehe
1. urusan nikah
- kursus kawin >> done
- amik borang >> done
- isi borang >> EnTunang : done ; me - not done yet
- HIV test >> done
- fotostat >> EnTunang : done ; me - not done yet
- wali+saksi >> EnTunang : done ; me - not done yet
- kadi >> lum jumpe lg
2. katering(khemah+hidangan pgantin) - will pay d balance b4 Raya Haji
3. pakej pengantin (baju+pelamin+makeup) - will pay half on dis weken n another half b4 wedding day
4. wedding OP (sticky&custom album+outdoor+dvd softcopy+free frame) -
-- will pay half on dis weken n another half b4 wedding day
5. kad jemputan - ready to send within 2weeks
6. hantaran - brg2 hiasan mayb akn dibeli after Raya Haji
7. door gift - need to finalized early Nov
8. bunga/bekas telur - Along will sponsor :)
6. misc
- makanan dlm paperbag >> Alang will sponsor
- lain2 x dpt dipk skang will update later

plan dis weken : fiting bj with EnTunang @ Taiping + anta completed form to imam b4 meet tok kadi

It's my wedding, I'll do it d way I want !!!! Just Do It (pinjam slogan Nike)

p/s : simbolik kaler merah kuning hijau sempena kaler traffic lite >> hijau dont wory ^^ kuning get ready ^^ merah plz alert ^^

my Life Today

arini tahap kesihatanku kureng memuaskn.. donno y huhu mcm nk nangis je td... lps lunch td rase nk termuntah jer seb baik ad spare Vicks mengurangkn rase tu skit je ... jap td lps mkn ns nmpk ad macang lg dlm peti ais pastu tetibe br tingat adekah disebabkn buah macang itu perutku x thn coz smlm tompang Alang mkn sbb die yg potong :P (nk potong buah pn mls camno ni so sile geleng pale anda :P).. rase mcm msk angin jer... arrghh tidak.. so jap g need 2 ask mymom la

need to sleep early 2day .... zzzzzz

Xtvt weken 24-25 Oct

24hb-Sabtu
kuar KL ngan Hani... saje jenjalan sambil chitchat n at last kitorg telah merembat 'handbag' haha... y?? bcoz of d price still under bajet = RM50 after less 50%.... waa x sangke yg akhirnye sy pn tergoda utk membeli but still thinking bile nk pki tu :P :P.... at nite sy telah bersengkang mata menyiapkn 2nd stage my paperbag until 12midnite je huhu

25hb-Ahad
pagi2 dh start menyambung balik keje smlm utk 3rd stage.. now br setel 20pcs... Along n family singgah jap while on d way back home to Bentong... chitchat with Along n die tanye ape yg lum bli lagi n she will sponsor munge pahar/telor :) then Alang lak tanye nk ltk pe dlm paperbag tu sy jwb xtau lg so she decide to sponsor mknn utk paperbag tu :) i'm hepy with dat :) :)

later will update checklist.....